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Not That Kind of Girl – Lena Dunham

Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She’s “Learned”


Out of everyone I’ve spoken with about this book, I feel like I am the only person who didn’t have a positive opinion of it.

I’ve been asked if I like HBO’s Girls or Lena’s movie Tiny Furniture, which I answered, “Yes”. But that doesn’t mean I have to enjoy this book.

I thought the chapters on the contents of her purse and her food diary were a waste of time to read. What was the point of this? To fill space because Lena is too young to have lived enough to write her memoirs? Whatever the reason maybe, I feel she was trying to get the page count up.not that kind of girl

I did enjoy some of the book. Mostly about her dealing with her OCD, but most of the stories irked me. I just want to give her a hug and tell her that she should take charge of her sexuality and not allow men to treat her so poorly. Also, if you are drinking heavily and doing a bunch of drugs have a buddy not allow you to sleep with anyone because apparently you cannot make good decisions on your own.

The chapter where she describes her rape, you might pass by as another crazy night in Lena’s life. She seems to glance over it as the act of violence that it is, and makes it seem like she just brushed it off, other than the physical pain she had to endure afterwards. It came across as an uncomfortable first sexual encounter with a guy who was way too rough in the sac and after noticing he wasn’t wearing a condom didn’t do too much about it. I do not want to dismiss her and rape is very horrific and I hope I misinterpreted how she wanted to convey her tale of rape to the world. I also hope she takes a stand against what happened to her, even though what I’ve read recently is describing Lena as she is defending the accused. I hope Lena shows young women out there that this is a situation that should not be taken lightly and makes a positive statement to those who look to her as a role model.

I guess I am more about biographies about empowering women and role models for our youth and this is definitely not the case in this book.


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11 Literary Costume Ideas For Halloween (via Retreat from Random House)

I absolutely loved this so much I had to share it immediately!!!

If you are looking for a kick ass literary costume this year. Now you can have your pick!! I can’t choose!! They are all so good!!

Note: This is all from Retreat from Random House

Recreate Cheryl Strayed’s experience by dressing up as her on October 31st.


Did he or didn’t he? Head out as Nick from Gone Girl.


You can be that kind of girl if you dress up like Lena Dunham this Halloween!


Why not head out as Canada’s favourite Commander of the International Space Station, Chris Hadfield?


Channel your inner Bridget this Halloween!


Prove you would survive and become one of the Gladers from The Maze Runner, Grievers not included.


Become a Shopaholic to the Stars by dressing up as Becky Brandon (née Bloomwood)


If you’re a fan of a good mystery, you might want to dress up as one of our favourite detectives!


You could channel one of our favourite memoirs and a NetFlix phenomenon!


What’s red, white and black all over? YOU!


Keep things extra gory this Halloween with a Max Brooks inspired costume.


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